For example, when we are afraid of something that cannot actually harm us - such as snakes - or something we can do nothing to avoid - such as old age or being struck down with smallpox or being run over by a truck - then our fear is unhealthy, for it serves only to make us unhappy and paralyze our will.

On the other hand, when someone gives up smoking because they are afraid of developing lung cancer, this is a healthy fear because the danger is real and there are constructive steps they can take to avoid it.

But gentlemen being afraid a woman will reject you is insane. There are millions more where she came from and who cares if she rejects you.

It takes will power on your part. Sometimes when the king is feeling fear. I just make myself do it. I don't want to come off as a wuss and embarrass myself to death because I don't have the balls to make the hit. It will make you a stronger person even if she says NO.

You really have to give yourself a pep talk but under all circumstances do not back down. Make the hit. No matter what you say. Just let her know you are interested and sit yourself aside from the rest of the weak sisters out there. She will secretly respect you for it. So will any bystanders. Here is a true story for you that will blow you away. I was on a public bus and I put the king of seduction's moves on a 10'.Kick this around in your mind. I got a standing ovation as I was getting off the bus and I will never forget the clapping hands that great day. Needless to say I walked away with her phone number!

However, if you just are shy through and through there is a permanent solution. Call the world's number 1 pick up artist and he will pick up and seduce the girls for you!

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