Wedding Words, why is it that every wedding message given to the future bride and groom always begins with those famous wedding words like - this is going to be the most SPECIAL day of your life or that your wedding is an occasion to be REMEMBERED for a long time to come. Well the reason behind those precious sayings is because - IT IS.

Why is the wedding supposed to be the most special day in your life we all ask, well that`s easy - this is where you pledge your undying love for your partner till death do us part. Take the wedding words or vows - a very special part of all wedding ceremonies where the happy couple get to say what it is they really feel for each other (heaven forbid if you had a tiff earlier or a minor disagreement)

The exchange of the gold wedding band makes the service extra special if the couple who are to be joined together in holy matrimony have personalized their wedding words. So why not make your day unique by having your wedding words tailor made by you - so as to speak.

How can pre-written wedding vows by a stranger express what it is you really want to say? Wedding words can be simple so do not be put off. If you find it hard to put your feelings down on a piece of paper ask a very close friend to help you with personalizing your written words.

Intimacy portrayed in your vows should be limited till a more appropriate time - like behind closed doors. But the more intimate the message the more attention from the audience. In a nutshell a wedding message will always be a part of the wedding ceremony to be remembered till eternity.

And if we want to guarantee this occasion to be special and remembered then add a touch of uniqueness to your wedding activities. - this could be something in the church or at your wedding venue the choice is yours. Unique means unique - why not have the groom walk down the aisle to you or both together - it breaks with tradition but you have to admit it is certainly different.

1 Ask the wedding guests not to give a wedding favor - instead ask for a small donation for charity.

2 Have a contest on the night for the best dressed guest. Let the guest know of this competition on their wedding invitation - this will give them chance to decide on what to wear. Not everyone can be a winner (but you are) because you have just added that touch of uniqueness by the way of having a wedding with the best turned out audience, like that of the awards. Don`t forget the red carpet for all the guest to walk on when entering the wedding venue this will make them feel extra special just like your wedding day

3 If your budget allows, invite a celebrity along to sing at the wedding venue - the lyrics of the song will certainly be wedding words that will never be forgotten.

The options are endless to make your wedding day special and stay forever in your thoughts. Wedding preparations carefully planned will make your dream come true when those precious wedding words are spoken - SPECIALLY - REMEMBERED from this day forward.